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Non-Violent Resistance (NVR) parent programme

NVR is a therapeutic approach designed to support parents and caregivers in responding to child-to-parent violence, aggression, and controlling behaviours without using force or punishment. Rooted in principles of presence, persistence, and connection, NVR helps restore authority in a calm and respectful way. Rather than focusing on control, NVR empowers parents to take strong, loving action—reducing escalation, building support networks, and fostering long-term change in family relationships

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What does an NVR session feel like?

NVR sessions are collaborative, practical, and deeply relational. My role is to help you find your footing again — to move from exhaustion and reactivity toward calm, confident action and connection.

Each session begins with understanding what’s been happening at home and what feels most urgent. Together, we look at patterns of escalation, identify your stress points, and begin building tools for steadiness.

In early sessions, we explore the relational map of your family — who gets drawn into conflict, where anxiety builds, and what helps things settle. I’ll introduce the core principles of NVR — presence, resistance without aggression, and rebuilding connection — in ways that fit your particular situation.

As we move forward, sessions may include:

  • Practical coaching on language and strategies for de-escalation.

  • Regulation practices to calm your own nervous system before responding.

  • Small acts of resistance that clearly but calmly signal harmful behaviour will no longer control the home.

  • Reconciliation gestures that nurture repair and trust alongside firm boundaries.

  • Planning support networks, inviting others to stand with you so you don’t have to hold this alone.

Throughout our work, I’ll help you notice what happens in your body and emotions as you begin to respond differently. NVR is not about punishment or compliance — it’s about reclaiming your own calm authority and creating a family environment grounded in safety and respect.

You’ll leave each session with clear steps to try at home and gentle reflection to bring back next time. Over the course of the work, many parents describe feeling more grounded, less fearful of their child’s reactions, and more hopeful about connection returning.

I bring the same nervous-system-informed, attachment-aware approach to NVR as I do to my therapy work — offering steadiness, warmth, and a practical path forward when things feel chaotic or stuck.

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What NVR is not

Non-Violent Resistance (NVR) is often misunderstood at first glance. The word resistance can sound like confrontation — but in practice, NVR is almost the opposite. It’s not about control, punishment, or trying to make your child comply. It’s about standing steady, connected, and calm in the face of difficult behaviour, and choosing not to be drawn into escalation.

Here’s what NVR is not:

  • It’s not behaviour management.
    NVR doesn’t focus on reward charts, consequences, or trying to “fix” your child’s behaviour. Instead, it supports you to change how you respond — which shifts the dynamic and changes what happens next.

  • It’s not passive or permissive.
    The “non-violent” part of NVR doesn’t mean letting things slide. It’s about calm, firm, peaceful resistance — saying “no” to harmful or controlling behaviour without shouting, threatening, or giving up.

  • It’s not about blame.
    NVR doesn’t look for who’s at fault. It recognises that patterns of conflict are relational and often arise from stress, fear, or disconnection. The focus is on re-building safety, not assigning guilt.

  • It’s not quick-fix parenting.
    Change through NVR is steady and relational. It takes time to rewire old patterns and build trust again — but it’s sustainable and deeply healing.

  • It’s not something you have to do alone.
    A big part of NVR is building a support network — inviting other caring adults to stand beside you so you’re not carrying the full emotional load.

At its heart, NVR is a practice of presence, calm authority, and connection. It empowers parents and carers to act from self-regulation rather than reactivity — helping the whole family system return to safety, respect, and relationship.

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The first step can feel big. I offer a free no-obligation appointment where we can figure out together if Touching Peace is the right fit for you.

The message is: I am here. I will not give up on you. I will not give in to violence.
— Haim Omer